a while or are considering having a long term relationship with that person. You’ve been together a few months and now the newness of the relationship is starting to wear off. You know the I can’t stop thinking about him all the time, part. Or she just has my head dancing all the time. This is also known as the infatuation. Every relationship new or old has had it. It’s the part of the relationship that made you two fall in love with each other.
Now it’s gone. Now you’re asking yourself is this person the right person for me? Below is the love test that could end the relationship or bring the fire to an intense heat of love. Be ready for the answers you may not like what you are about to hear.
Love Test Question 1. What is important to you in a marriage situation?
This is a definite thought question. Watch his body language as he is thinking of an answer. Is the answer honest and though our or does it come off as an answer he thinks you want to hear?
Love Test Question 2. What are your long term goals for your life.
Most of us women want to know if those goals have any mention of us in them. If those goals are all geared towards work or something outside the relationship we may want to move on.
Love Test Question 3. Where do you see our relationship in the next 3-5 years?
Make sure you have been together a while before you ask your man this question. The thought of being with somebody in 5 years can be a pressure question and scare your guy off. Of course if that happens then you two are finding out early on whether or not this relationship will be long term.
Love Test Question 4. What is it about me that you wish you could change?
This will give him the opportunity to get his pet peeves out into the open. However this shouldn’t be a session where he’s going to rail you for the next hour.
Love Test Question 5. What are your thoughts on money?
Is he a spender? If he has been pretty loose with his money during the infatuation phase by showering you with gifts etc getting the answer to this question is paramount because if he actually is a freewheeling spender he’s got a stash somewhere or he’s going to be broke in a short amount of time.
Love Test Question 6. What caused your last relationship to end?
You’re looking for a well thought out answer. If he begins to pass all the blame on to his last mate as to the end of the relationship he’ll be doing the same thing when yours ends. Look for him to put some of the blame on himself for the most truthful answer.
Love Test Question 7. How do you feel about our relationship when we’re not together?
This will tell you if he is secure with himself because if he says that he can’t stand to think about you being with another man when all you do is go have lunch with the girls you have a big time controller on your hands. Better to find out right now.
These questions may be best answered when you two are not together. Take the questions and work on them alone and separate then make time to get together to go over your answers.
Remember to keep in mind this short love test is only a start to get you two to communicate openly about things that you don’t talk about in your everyday conversations.
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